Comment no image

Published on May 25th, 2015 | by The Tertangala

7

1IN3 Response to The Tertangala

Disclaimer: The following was written by a representative of the 1IN3 campaign in response to a Tertangala article. It is not affiliated with the writers of The Tertangala.

The One in Three Campaign – a diverse group of male and female professionals, academics, researchers, social workers, psychologists, counsellors, lawyers, health promotion workers, trainers and survivor/advocates – would like to respond to just a few of the false and misleading claims made in The Tertangala’s op-ed “The One In Three Campaign is Bollocks, and Here is Why” (May 20th).

The author of the article claims that 1IN3 is essentially a “campaign against efforts to address men’s violence against women” and that we “constantly undermine campaigns that address men’s violence against women.” Anyone reading our website or doing a thorough Google search would find that there is absolutely no evidence to support such a claim. If you read the Misinformation page of our website in its entirety, you will see it clearly states “The One in Three Campaign is fully supportive of all genuine programs designed to protect women and children from violence. We are simply seeking similar protection for men and boys and asking that the vast majority who are not violent are no longer tarred with the brush of violent males.”

The author claims we cite the Australian Bureau of Statistic’s 2006 Personal Safety Survey (PSS) and “family conflict” studies as our main sources. This is also quite untrue. We cite the 2012 Personal Safety Survey along with 20 other reputable studies that include other community surveys, crime, police, homicide, hospital, and protection order statistics, all demonstrating that one in three victims of family violence is male. For example, the NSW Auditor General found that 34% (more than one in three) domestic and family violence incidents recorded by Police in 2010 involved male victims and 30% (almost one in three) involved female perpetrators.

As the only national campaign advocating for male victims of family violence, we are quite aware of the shortcomings of the ABS PSS. All types of research have limitations, but when used together they provide useful data which help us to understand the entire picture of family violence. Despite its problems, the PSS is widely acknowledged to be the best indicator we have of the levels of domestic and family violence in Australia by every significant government and NGO in the sector: ANROWS, White Ribbon, Our Watch, etc. For example, ANROWS relies almost completely on ABS PSS data for its Fact Sheet on Key Statistics on Violence Against Women. If the data can be legitimately used by these respected organisations, it can also be used by advocates for male victims of family violence.

Even those studies that are “act based” like the PSS can provide useful data. For example, on the issue of self-defence, another “act based” study, the Young People and Domestic Violence survey found the following about young people’s experience of witnessing physical domestic violence between their parents: 14.4% of young people reported that this violence was perpetrated both by the male against the female and the female against the male; 9.0% reported that violence was perpetrated against their mother by her male partner but that she was not violent towards him; and 7.8% reported that violence was perpetrated against their father by his female partner but that he was not violent towards her. We don’t know how much of the mutual violence was committed in self-defence, but we do know that a significant amount of violence was unilaterally perpetrated by both male and female perpetrators.

The author almost got it right when she stated that we claim that “one male is a victim of domestic homicide every 10 days”. If she had looked at our website she would have seen that we actually state the following:

“75 males were killed in domestic homicide incidents between 2008-10. This equates to one death every 10 days.” The Australian Institute of Criminology source is referenced and can be easily checked. The figures are for Australia (not NSW).

The author omitted the following male victims of family violence from the NSW Coroner’s report:

  • two cases where a man was killed by his female intimate partner and there had been
    physical violence in the relationship perpetrated by both parties, but there was no clear historical pattern of coercion and control evident.
  • Other cases where a woman killed her partner or ex-partner such as this one http://www.abc.net.au/news/2005-07-07/woman-found-guilty-of-murdering-ex-husband/2053332
  • 16 men who were killed by a relative/kin in a domestic violence context.
  • 30 boys who were killed by a parent in a domestic violence context.

The author claims that 1IN3 “is not a campaign for male victims of domestic violence” by listing a series of erroneous claims:

  • It claims that we do not mention violence against males by other males or domestic violence in same sex relationships. If you take a look at our website and our submissions to government inquiries you will see we mention it regularly, both in the context of gay male relationships and violence perpetrated by family members such as parents, siblings, etc.
  • It claims that male victims are five times more likely to be assaulted by a male than by a female. There is no evidence to support this claim. The robust data cited on our website shows that the vast majority (94%) of perpetrators of intimate partner violence against males are female. There is little Australian data available on broader family violence, but what data we do have shows that other family members who perpetrate violence against males are just as likely to be female as male.
  • It correctly claims that we use the term “family violence”, but then claims that we imply that all of these men are victims of domestic violence. There is absolutely no evidence that we have ever done such a thing.
  • It claims we “twist statistics for the sole purpose of detracting attention away from female victims, and to make the numbers of male victims seem greater”. The statistics on our website are all clearly referenced and there is no evidence that anything we do is designed to “detract attention away from female victims”.  Any errors found on our website will be corrected immediately – we are only human.

We don’t dispute that men are most at risk of physical violence from other males in public, however the author’s claim that this is also the case in the home is baseless.

The author claims that we “downplay one group’s suffering in order to prove that Men are Truly the Ones Who Suffer”. This is categorically untrue. We have never downplayed the suffering of any group or claimed that men suffer from family violence at greater rates or with greater effect than do women. In fact the name of our campaign clearly acknowledges that women suffer from family violence at rates twice as high as men. We simply ask that the significant minority of victims who are male receive a modicum of acknowledgement, services and support. We have consciously avoided making the issue “a case of men vs. women” over the five years that we have been running the Campaign. Our mantra has been simply “men can be victims too”. It is not a zero sum game – our society has the capacity to support all victims of family violence, whether men, women or children – just as we support all victims of cancer, or any number of other impacts upon people’s health and wellbeing.

We would ask readers to read the report of our activities and successes over the first 5 years of operation and decide for themselves whether we are serious advocates for male victims of family violence or not. http://www.oneinthree.com.au/storage/pdfs/1IN3_5_Year_Report_2015.pdf.

Greg Andresen

Senior Researcher
One in Three Campaign
oneinthree.com.au


About the Author



7 Responses to 1IN3 Response to The Tertangala

  1. I wonder if they remove the Facebook plug-in chat feature like before? I’m actually surprised they would publish this article! I would have thought the truth to be far to triggering lol

  2. craig benno says:

    1 in 3 was integral to my transitioning from victim to survivor of female perpetuated dv, It was the only org that allowed me to tell my story. While I had been punched in the head, threatened to be stabbed with knives, spat on, emotionally and verbally abused – and had essential medical equipment denied me – the only help offered me by community service groups was to do a anger management course.

  3. Kaitlyn says:

    Women need to stand up and protect our sons,brothers and dads from extreme feminists.

    Far too many women use false allegations to gain the upper hand in custody disputes.

    Almost half of all victims of family violence are men-these men could one day be your son,brother or father.

    Lets unite and SAY: family violence knows no gender”!

  4. Alice Clarke says:

    Still think one in three are full of shit. I think by publishing the article you kind of dug your own grave so to speak. You haven’t really responded to much. .
    Shame on you tertugala for aligning yourself with a group that support A Voice For Men.

    “The author of the article claims that 1IN3 is essentially a “campaign against efforts to address men’s violence against women” and that we “constantly undermine campaigns that address men’s violence against women.” Anyone reading our website or doing a thorough Google search would find that there is absolutely no evidence to support such a claim.”
    -WRONG – you have actively sought to distract The White Ribbon Campaign, Not on my Watch and ANROWS by claiming they are sexist.They have had to divert important resources that should have been aimed at supporting violence towards women. I googled it and found it. hmmm lie number 1.

    “It claims that we do not mention violence against males by other males or domestic violence in same sex relationships. If you take a look at our website and our submissions to government inquiries you will see we mention it regularly, both in the context of gay male relationships and violence perpetrated by family members such as parents, siblings, etc.- ”
    -You might ‘mention’ it – but where are the men included in your statistics – how convenient. Prove you do more than ‘mention’ these male to male perpetrators – but it’s all in the conniving way you word it isn’t it?

    “The robust data cited on our website shows that the vast majority (94%) of perpetrators of intimate partner violence against males are female.” Baahhaahaaa. Seriously ‘Robust data’ Blatant lie – not robust at all. Fails to unpack the statistics at all… Once again VERY conniving. See above for explanation of your conniving and obvious to anyone with half a brain -lie

    Err aren’t we talking about intimate partner violence… I’ve just been reading the tactics you use to completely CONFUSE your readers. So what are we talking about intimate partner violence or domestic violence . Make up your mind one in three? – WTF What are we talking about again.. I thought it was intimate partner violence … oh wait it’s not now? See below for one on three’s take on this…

    “The author omitted the following male victims of family violence from the NSW Coroner’s report: (Oh wow! one victim of ipv and a range of domestic violence… sorry how is that relevant again? )

    two cases where a man was killed by his female intimate partner and there had been
    physical violence in the relationship perpetrated by both parties, but there was no clear historical pattern of coercion and control evident.
    Other cases where a woman killed her partner or ex-partner such as this one http://www.abc.net.au/news/2005-07-07/woman-found-guilty-of-murdering-ex-husband/2053332
    16 men who were killed by a relative/kin in a domestic violence context.
    30 boys who were killed by a parent in a domestic violence context.

    It correctly claims that we use the term “family violence”, but then claims that we imply that all of these men are victims of domestic violence. There is absolutely no evidence that we have ever done such a thing.

    -Errm see above you just did it. ….Family Violence , Domestic Violence , intimate partner violence which one are you talking about because the statistics for each one are VERY different so don’t use the statistics from domestic violence to try and claim that intimate partner violence is mainly perpetrated by women. You may not claim it but you inference and confuse and connive your readers.

    and that’s my opinion on one in three. Now go ahead and waste your time replying to me… ba haahaa… As a single mum in the suburbs… I look forward to your lengthy response that wastes your valuable time and resources. (I could go on but I think any ‘thinking’ reader will understand when they are being duped.)

  5. Alice Clarke says:

    And do you know what really annoys me the most about 1 in three. They seem to think that men are disadvantaged. What they fail to understand is that women and children experiencing domestic violence do not get the support they need at present. So they are going to take the support those people need away from the women and children who experience severe and prolonged violence toward them perpetrated by men. Until people get their head out of the sand we will have more dead women and children. (But not many dead men… because they are not dying if you read the statistics provided by ANROWS and the coroner) – which provides a lot more honest analysis of domestic violence statistics in Australia.

  6. Alice Clarke says:

    And it is gendered …when you get headbutted for not doing the ironing, thrown down the stairs for asking for help with the dishes, slapped, spat on for mopping the floor at a time inconvenient to the ‘self entitled’ grand poo bar, oh and did I mention the time he choked me by holding me up against a window so my feet couldn’t touch the ground? Because I am a woman and didn’t live up to his expectations of what he thought a woman should be… his servant. This is the story told of so many woman around Australia. NOW. I am lucky … I got out, but I got no help… no ‘one in three’ to help me and my kids. Services are not around for women. All we have is the law, kind of. Reading the comments here are heart breaking for me. I wonder if there is any hope for women in violent relationships when it seems all the symnpathy goes to the few men hurt by women. Shame on you who support this campaign.

  7. Lisi says:

    Alice Clarke is absolutely correct: 1inthree has nothing to do with advocating for men and everything to do with spreading misinformation and playing the victim. It’s a thinly-veiled MRA site. Despite its efforts to infiltrate the mainstream, most people have seen past the shoddy statistics and see it for what it is.

Back to Top ↑